"But if ye be without chastisement, wherefor all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons." (Hebrews 12:8 KJV)
"Look at these wicked people - enjoying a life of ease while their riches multiply. Did I keep my heart pure for nothing? Did I keep myself innocent for no reason? I get nothing but trouble all day long; every morning brings me pain. If I had really spoken this way to others, I would have been a traitor to your people. So I tried to understand why the wicked prosper. But what a difficult task it is! Then I went into your sanctuary, O God, and I finally understood the destiny of the wicked." (PSALM 73:12-17 NLT)
Getting to the point about what this looks like in real life, Asaph opened this Psalm expressing his heart; saying, "Truly God is good to Israel, to those whose hearts are pure. But as for me, I almost lost my footing. My feet were slipping, and I was almost gone." If you have ever felt that way, it is really not that difficult to understand how easily we can slip or fall, just because we might envy the wicked.
That might not seem to be a reality to some, but I know what it is like, as it is, I get a chance to see the way they live, inspecting their houses and seeing all the wealth that they have acquired. Getting a little taste of glamor and many expensive toys, can sometimes make us envious and feeling a little left out.
But one thing I often do, without getting too nosey, is look around to see if there is a Bible being used or some kind of sign that they are believers. If I don't see anything that might show that they part of God's family, then my heart gets right, and I don't feel so envious anymore.
Better to be partakers of God's chastisement, then to be feeling like you can do things on your own! We that have experienced what that feels like, if we are His children, then we should know, He will not allow that for long! If you have been following this blog for a while, you might have known what I mean! If God isn't teaching and molding you, then who is?
Pray hard for your family, especially those who don't think they need the LORD...
"Then I realized that my heart was bitter, and I was all torn up inside. I was so foolish and ignorant - I must have seemed like a senseless animal to you. Yet I still belong to you; you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, leading me to a glorious destiny. Whom have I in heaven but you? I desire you more than anything on earth. My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever." (PSALM 73:21-26 NLT)