"See that ye refuse not him that speaketh. For if they escaped not who refused him that spake on earth, much more shall not we escape, if we turn away from him that speaketh from heaven:" (Hebrews 12:25 KJV)
"When the cool evening breezes were blowing, the man and his wife heard the LORD God walking about in the garden. So they hid from the LORD God among the trees. Then the LORD God called out to the man, "Where are you?" He replied, "I heard you walking in the garden, so I hid. I was afraid because I was naked." "Who told you that you were naked?" the LORD God asked. "Have you eaten from the tree whose fruit I commanded you not to eat?" The man replied, "It was the woman you gave me who gave me the fruit, and I ate it." Then the LORD God asked the woman, "What have you done?" "The serpent deceived me," she replied. "That's why I ate it."" (Genesis 3:8-13 NLT)
If there was any other way, making excuses are what we are born to do; it's almost as if they are a part of our DNA! Adam and Eve did it, and it was passed down to us! It is what we do; sometimes without even realizing that we do, we just feel like we deserve to do whatever, without even counting the cost.
This is just something that I referenced in the meaning of the word, "Refuse," which is shown in the verse we are looking at today. It really makes better sense if we have an excuse, so we think; because there is one very important item we forget about: God knows your heart!
When we sometimes feel as though God is telling us something that might need to be changed in our lives, we sometimes will avoid it being about us and think it is someone else. If that isn't an excuse, then I don't know else you can call it; because an excuse is taking the blame off you and putting it on someone else!
Maybe it is just me; but sometimes when I hear a message in church that might cause me to feel guilty, it really doesn't hurt when I make it about someone else...
"So the LORD sent Nathan the prophet to tell David this story: "There were two men in a certain town. One was rich, and one was poor. The rich man owned a great many sheep and cattle. The poor man owned nothing but one little lamb he had bought. He raised that little lamb, and it grew up with his children. It ate from the man's own plate and drank from his cup. He cuddled it in his arms like a baby daughter. One day a guest arrived at the home of the rich man. But instead of killing an animal from his own flock, he took the poor man's lamb and killed it and prepared it for his guest." "David was furious. "As surely as the LORD lives," he vowed, "any man who would do such a thing deserves to die! He must repay four lambs to the poor man for the one he stole and for having no pity."" (2 Samuel 121-6 NLT)