"And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed." (Hebrews 12:13 KJV)
"But you, dear friends, must build each other up in your most holy faith, pray in the power of the Holy Spirit, and await the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will bring you eternal life. In this way, you will keep yourselves safe in God's love. And you must show mercy to those whose faith is wavering. Rescue others by snatching them from the flames of judgment. Show mercy to still others, but do so with great caution, hating the sins that contaminate their lives." (Jude 20-23 NLT)
Having a little experience in the way things can get out of hand in churches that have major breakups and serious judgment against leadership, I know that it is really hard to change people's mind, let alone, to get them to change their heart's. If you have been part of a church split, then you might not like what I have to say, because there really isn't any compassion or love that comes from those who take part in something that tears apart a fellowship; especially if it is all about nonsense and misunderstandings.
More than anything, I wish that people could just get along, no matter what differences they might have with one another; we all have different opinions on certain things; especially the things that might be about what we do or do not do; following the law, or whether your salvation can be taken away, if you might fall or get your name stricken from the Book of Life.
Much of what we fight over, has very little to do about loving one another; no one really feels like loving when they feel as though they have been offended or judged. What makes matters worse, is the spiritual warfare that takes place, without even knowing it! That is by far the biggest issue that is ignored, mostly because of cold, hard hearts.
This much is certain: We are all the body of Christ! If we fail to love one another as we should, then the body becomes sick and falls apart...
"Yes, the body has many parts, not just one part. If the foot says, "I am not part of the body because I am not the hand," that does not make it less a part of the body. And if the ear says, "I am not part of the body because I am not the eye," would that make it any less part of the body? If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were and ear, how would you smell anything? But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. How strange a body would be if it had only one part! Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. The eye can never say to the hand, "I don't need you." The head can never say to the feet, "I don't need you."" (1 Corinthians 12:14-21 NLT)