"So Christ was once offered to bear the sins of many; and unto them that look for him shall he appear the second time without sin unto salvation." (Hebrews 9:28 KJV)
"Most importantly, I want to remind you that in the last days scoffers will come, mocking the truth and following their own desires. They will say, "What happened to the promise that Jesus is coming again? From before the times of our ancestors, everything has remained the since the world was first created."" (2 Peter 3:3-4 NLT)
Not so surprised about how this happens, but I must admit, keeping our focus on the Lord's soon return is sometimes overtaken by life's engagements and pleasures. It is really nothing we actually set out to do, but more about that which we find ourselves doing, all the while, we forget about the Lord's soon return, and focus more on living and planning a good life.
This isn't just a personal matter, because big plans are made over and over, even in the corporate settings of the churches. The show must go on, even while we wait, life and fellowship must keep going; and as it does, sometimes the times of planning and going through the trials of this life, keep us focused on the things we must do, and less time on being focused on His return.
What is a good pilgrim to do! We can't just neglect our responsivities of our work and families; I am certain that is not what the Lord is expecting us to do; but we also need to keep our focus on the fact that He is coming soon, making every effort to work His coming into everything we do. That includes the days when we are enjoying life's pleasures, such as golf, biking, and taking the family to the ski-park!
I say that, only because it is on my list of things to do; so please don't judge me for trying to enjoy time with the kids, as we practice snowboarding. There are certain things that require engagement with family, which is meant to show how much you care and love to spend time with them; something some of us forget to do also, in this busy life.
We can still wait for the Lord's return, even while we are riding on the chairlift...
""You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected. A faithful servant is one to whom the master can give the responsibility of managing his other household servants and feeding them. If the master returns and finds that servant has done a good job, there will be a reward. I tell you the truth, the master will put that servant in charge of all he owns. But what if the servant is evil and thinks, 'My master won't be back for a while,' and he begins beating his other servants, partying, and getting drunk? The master will return unannounced and unexpected, and he will cut the servant to pieces and assign him a place with the hypocrites. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth."" (Matthew 24:44-51 NLT)